Shery Love


Love From Bethard Hearne Smith

When I think of Miss Shery I think of…

  • Spoons
  • Bag tags
  • Frames
  • Frogs
  • Anything Nancy Thomas
  • Big smiles
  • Uncensored Conversation
  • Potato soup
  • Dominoes
  • Khaki and her litter
  • Stitch-n-Bitch
  • Wooden kitchen tables
  • Absolut ads
  • Braids in Emily’s hair
  • Noah’s ark
  • Pottery
  • Dave Letterman show
  • How she saved “The Roof Club” from failing p.e.
  • Watermelons
  • Emily and Rob’s childhood art
  • Tying our legs together for the three legged race–and a great pep talk:)
  • Red Explorer
  • Little happys

I miss and love her so much. I think of her daily and smile, laugh and cry!  Thanks for such wonderful memories Miss Shery!



Love from Jason McKenzie
May 18, 2009, 12:48 am
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Thank you, Jason, for digging up these old photos.  We had so much fun in the early ’90s!

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John McConnell and Mom.

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Jason dressed up as Mom for Halloween one year.

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Mom and her great smile.

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Jason looks so young! Was this really 1994? We were 16 years old.

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Love this sweet photo of Mom and Dad.



Love From Steven Barnes
May 12, 2009, 10:50 pm
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I always remembered the Absolut ads she loved collecting.



Love from Crista Moore Murray

Here are some of the things I don’t think about without thinking about our times with Mrs. Shery:


Garage apartments – up until two years ago, I was still making trouble up there!!


Decorum – Mrs. Shery always made me look it up, in that big dictionary that took too much room in the kitchen, if I was being rude or un-ladylike~probably after playing Baby Got Back!!


Tea – she loved her tea.


The word Khaki or Slacks – Todd Patton renamed the dog Khaki to Slacks.
Old random buttons – you all know that bowl.


Watermelon – you all remember Rob’s message about Emily.
The number 9 that looks like this instead of a straight line down – that’s how she wrote it.


Critta Mo – Eric G coined it but Mrs. Shery approved and changed it and call me
“my mo!”


Linen outfits – she wore them well.


Laminating – since she was the first person I knew with a machine and I actually received one of those cards from Jason Mackenzie!! PS-I now have a machine of my own and still have that lovely card from Jason!


It’s amazing how many areas of our lives she touched.  I actually think I have muscle memory for opening the back yard gate, walking up the Reeves’ back porch steps and opening the back door. Half of the times, I never made it past the first empty chair at the table.


It also amazes me that our stories are so similar about this one woman sitting at this one kitchen table in this one two-story house on this one street in this one small town during a relatively small amount of time in our lives and what a HUGE, LONG-LASTING effect she made on all of us.


I love that even though I haven’t seen, spoken to, or even thought about some of the people sharing or being shared about – we have a common bond that doesn’t take long to reconnect us all – SHERY LOVE.


I love you Emily for doing this.



Love from John McConnell
May 12, 2009, 7:46 pm
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One of the funniest/embarrassing moments I remember about your Mom:  We were all at your house (usual) one night and Heather Wheatley was there with me.  (Stop laughing Emily.)  Apparently we were getting kind of hot and heavy in the apartment above the garage and your mom saw the whole thing from the kitchen and promptly brought it to my attention when I came back into the house.  I remember thinking, she’s not mad but she’s never going to let me forget it.  And when I talked to her 5 years later she brought it up as if it happened yesterday.

And the other thing I give your mom credit for is me doing crossword  puzzles religiously.  Everytime I walked in that house there was one on the kitchen table and next to it, there was about 10 books she was using to cheat.  I always used to try and help her but I wasn’t very good at them back then.  Yet today, everyday I work the crossword in the Shreveport Times and usually finish it (with help from about 10 books).  I can remember only one person who I would have picked all of that up from and it was definitely your mom.



Love From Joseph Jones
May 5, 2009, 9:17 am
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The things that trumps anything else is how warm I felt then (and even now as I think of it) when she was in the room and talked to me.  She was so very awesome and seemed to make everything better.



Love From Jason McKenzie

I remember so many things about your mom growing up.

I remember the first time I ever met her;  I raised rabbits for a boy scout merit badge and you wanted one so you and your mom showed up at my house to pick on out. You had that rabbit a long time!

As we left Broadmoor and went to different high schools, we still stayed close and 648 Ratcliff was always a fun place to hang out and learn about life from Shery.  I remember when Catherine and I came over to visit and I followed y’all upstairs to your room and your mom said, “uh uh uh, little boys don’t go in little girls’ rooms.”  I was mortified!  Of course, over time, it didn’t seem to matter as much as I think your mom had more insight into who I was than I did!

I remember being at your house when the OJ Simpson chase was going on and her making a comment about how silly it was that they didn’t just shoot his tires out.

I remember getting ready for Byrd’s ‘Girl of my Screams’ pageant at your house and your mom helping me, John McConnell, and Brandon Bamonte put on panty hose and lipstick!

For my 16th birthday, she got me a subscription to Playboy of all things!

I remember helping you paint your bedroom and her being ok with me being upstairs since she had gotten to know me so well.

I remember house-sitting for y’all when you went to New York one year and your mom being so sweet about asking me.  Of course, I remember her Americana décor and the wonderful framed tidbits throughout the house.

She and I had an Absolut Vodka Ad war going on for years!  She finally beat me by far by finding out the months of magazines that the ads had been in and sent us to the downtown library to steal them!  Remember, you and I almost got caught by the library rent-a-cop because one of the ads we stole had a sensor on it! When we told her, she didn’t care that we almost got into trouble…she was just upset that the ad had a sensor on it!

She thought it was gross when we put your toes in our mouths!

Her thinking how funny it was when Michael Tooke and I pinned you down and gave you a hickie on your neck!

She helped me make laminated cards and fun gifts for all of my girls back then.

She taught me how to wrap gifts in different ways and I still use her techniques today!

She would send me into the garage apartment to make sure you weren’t doing anything she didn’t approve of!

I remember not having a costume for Halloween one year so I went as her!  She let me borrow a housegown, a cane, and glasses, and I had a wig to match her.

I remember sitting around for hours at the kitchen table talking and having Khaki there to play with us as your mom entertained us with her opinions and stories.

These are only a few of the memories that I have of your mom and she is
painted into my permanent memories that highlight some of the best times of
my life!



Love From Steven Barnes
May 5, 2009, 9:10 am
Filed under: Friends of Rob & Emily

Oh man, the fondest of all my memories of Shery, ” your mum,” was her talking to me when I ran away from home. I remember Mike stole the Impala, scooped me up and we drove to your house.  I don’t know why it just seemed like a safe haven. Your mother heated up some tea and gave me a cup.  We sat and talked about why I ran and why I didn’t want to go back.  Then she did the unthinkable….talked me into going home, in her way, always calming, never judging never condescending way she convinced me that it was the right thing to do when I was sure it was not.  But that was the way she was…she had a aura about her that was firm and yet kind…a special woman who was near and dear to my heart, writing this just made me cry.



Love from Eric Gaensehals
May 5, 2009, 9:07 am
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Your mom will always have a special place in my heart. She made your home a familiar and warm place for all of us to just be ourselves. Seemed to me like she was one of the rare people that can gain immediate trust and acceptance from anyone. We all loved her and miss her every day.



Love From Dan May
May 5, 2009, 9:07 am
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What I remember most about your mother is her warmth.  I considered your home as kind of a second home.  And I considered your mom as sort of a second mom along with Mrs. Kelsall.  Every time I came over to your house, she was always glowing in the kitchen.  She made me feel comfortable and at ease.  What I thought was great about her was that you could just sit and talk to her about anything.  There were plenty of times when no one else was in the kitchen or the back patio and she and I would talk and just hang out.  It was never awkward or forced or “hurry up Rob, let’s get out of here”.  It was like I’d known her my whole life.  Of all the fun and memorable things I’ve done in my life, I consider the moments just hanging out in your kitchen with both of your parents as some of the best.  And I think your mother was a big reason for that.




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